Tuesday, January 26, 2021

Elmo

Yesterday, on a very wet and chilly day, E learned how to identify and say the name of her first character: Elmo. Usually we don't watch a lot of videos, save for random generic videos of fruits dancing to music, but yesterday was a particularly claustrophobic like day where we didn't leave the confines of the house at all, and so I needed ways to keep E entertained. Enter Sesame Street videos on Youtube. E soon learned how to identify and say, "Elmo", and also learned to identify and say "Fish" (Elmo has a pet goldfish called Dorothy).

We did finger painting for the first time yesterday too, which kept her attention for a grand total of maybe 15 minutes (if I am being optimistic). The post-finger paints bath probably took up more time than the finger painting itself, but whatever works to keep a toddler busy.

Tuesday, January 12, 2021

New Words

At 18 months and a half (I think I first noticed it on Sunday, the 10th of Jan), E has started saying, "No!" Initially I wasn't sure she was saying No, because it sounded so cutesy and with such a high inflection, but after hearing it a few times, plus coupled with her shaking her head, it is very clearly a No. Jon said she sounded like Yoshi from Mario.

Another two words I noticed from her last week were Kiwi and Grapes, incidentally both fruits that she likes and are also found in the felt fruit basket we purchased from Ikea just before Christmas. She says "Wiwi" for Kiwi, and Grapes is - for some inexplicable reason - something that sounds like "Ducks". 

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These last few days, Jon and I attempted to switch E over to a floor bed from a crib. We thought she would enjoy the freedom more, especially since she likes to pull books and toys into her crib when she is inside, by reaching through the rails and grabbing anything that she can. Instead, it was an unmitigated disaster. E would throw these massive, anxiety ridden tantrums and not settle down to sleep. She would throw herself against the door and floor in her distress if we left the room, hitting her head and sustaining several small injuries like cut lips in the process. Yesterday I got an anxiety attack just dealing with her and felt like I couldn't breathe for several hours. It was, in short, an extremely unpleasant time for all involved. So last Jon proposed putting the crib back, and voila, peace was restored again into the household. I don't even know what to make of all of this, except I am relieved that it is over. 

Thursday, January 07, 2021

Bird Brain

After putting E's breakfast down on her little table this morning, I decided to take a quiet moment to watch the birds outside the window. I had seen quite a few of them out of the corner of my eye, and so decided I wanted to watch for a short while, especially since E hadn't woken up yet.

A large European Starling was perched at the top of my suet feeder, and seemed to be dominating it (they are known as bullies after all), but my regular feeder was again dominated by House Sparrows (another mini bully), and there were 3 fat squirrels right underneath the feeder greedily eating in a circle (and given that they do fight with some of the birds, I guess they are bullies too). Still, as I watched I got to see a bright red Cardinal swoop in and out and some fat Robins off on the lawn pecking away. There were two or three Blue Jays flying around and hanging out on both the lawn and the bird feeder, some little Chickadees singing in the vicinity and nibbling away, and one little White Breasted Nuthatch and one little Tufted Titmouse nipping in and out very quickly with their respective bounties.

Upon walking back to the kitchen, I also saw a pair of House Finches on the dormant Burning Bush, surveying the little seed bell we have positioned right outside the window. I think they flew away when they caught sight of my presence though. Later I passed the front window again and saw the same Cardinal arguing with several of the Sparrows while they were all on the bird feeder. A Downy Woodpecker was now on the suet, and ignoring the chaos underneath. 

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I don't know when my fascination with birds started, though it's admittedly not something that has been very consistent in my life. I don't remember paying attention to any birds besides pigeons when I lived in NYC, though perhaps that is because there were no other birds than pigeons in NYC. Maybe there were sparrows too, but I really don't recall many. 

I grew up, like many kids from a former Colonial country, immersed in various aspects of British culture. The one most pertinent to the point I am trying to make is its literature. I remember devouring Enid Blyton books, and sometimes not really understanding the details of what I was reading, but enjoying the stories anyway. Tales of children going off on rural countryside adventures (all in very warm and urban Singapore!), and encountering wild animals and different types of birds. Plus having things like 'suet feeders', which confused me even as I got older because suet means a type of animal fat - so birds eat animal fat?! Or the feeders were to create animal fat?!

Then of course there was the general love of literature in English, most of which happens to be set in either the United States, Europe, or the UK. Plus general aspects of culture. And though I can't think of any one piece of media where there was explicit talk of birds, I had imbibed enough over the years that even before I put any serious thought to bird watching, I was already familiar with the names of many of the birds even though I had no idea how they looked like. 

Well, flash forward to last year and Jon and I got our first bird feeder. Since then I have been trying to learn the names of feeder birds, with my last few being the Carolina Wren, the House Finch and Purple Finch. When it comes to female House Finches and Purple Finches though, I don't know how I'm ever going to learn to distinguish between them and all the many different types of Sparrows. I will just call every one a House Sparrow. It amazed me how many of them really look so similar, and yet there are people that can tell them apart. For now, that person will not be me.

Friday, January 01, 2021

2021

2021 is finally here, and hopefully it will be a better one than 2020. That being said, it's hard to imagine life going anywhere near back to 'normal' for at least the next few months (realistically late 2021/early 2022) until vaccines are fully rolled out + the very virulent and contagious strain of COVID-19 is contained. I realised yesterday, after a very stressful and emotionally trying day with E, that it has been at least a full year where Jon and I got no outside help with E. Now that she is just past 18 months, she is turning into a full fledged toddler, complete with endless toddler meltdowns and tantrums, and it is very wearing on me despite my best efforts to ignore her.

Anyway today I just want to do a brief tally of the words in her vocabulary, just for memento's sake (and to attempt to focus on the positives):

1. Dada
2. Mama
3. Lolo (Tagalog for Grandpa)
4. Ball
5. Bubble
6. Nana (Banana)
7. Uh-oh
8. Wow
9. Hi
10. Bye
11. Doggy
12. Da Gun (Saffron? Or any animal, e.g. squirrel, bird)

She understands a lot of different words too, like No, Book, Milk, Nap, and so on, but hasn't attempted to say them yet. One time she did say Gong Gong when we were talking to my Dad and she repeated after me, but I haven't heard her say it since. It is interesting to see her language acquisition, and how fast she picks up some words like 'Bubble' which she started saying during a bubble bath this week, and was the first time I had said 'Bubble' and given her a bubble bath in a while.